Hey, the asking if I could come up with a question was, in fact, a question. Ha.
Eh. Sex is a lot of fun and produces endorphines and inspires cuddling instincts in the female but it's not the whole big fanfare flower thing the media makes it out to be. Orgasms are nice and yes, I do get bitchy when I haven't had one in a while, but sex as it's usually portrayed is kinda meh.
I mention "sex as it's usually portrayed" because the sex I take part in a bit different. The sex I take part in is more about fun than anything. I get to control a pet and Pet gets things done to him. And if that means hogtying him, strapping a dildo to his face, and humping his head then that's what it means and we both have fun.
But in general, and this applies everywhere, if you're both (or all) having fun and there are orgasms involved somewhere then it usually counts as sex. Rubbing up against each other while fully clothed and you both get off on it, that's a form of sex. And it's pretty damn safe, too.
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Date: 2007-08-17 04:30 am (UTC)Eh. Sex is a lot of fun and produces endorphines and inspires cuddling instincts in the female but it's not the whole big fanfare flower thing the media makes it out to be. Orgasms are nice and yes, I do get bitchy when I haven't had one in a while, but sex as it's usually portrayed is kinda meh.
I mention "sex as it's usually portrayed" because the sex I take part in a bit different. The sex I take part in is more about fun than anything. I get to control a pet and Pet gets things done to him. And if that means hogtying him, strapping a dildo to his face, and humping his head then that's what it means and we both have fun.
But in general, and this applies everywhere, if you're both (or all) having fun and there are orgasms involved somewhere then it usually counts as sex. Rubbing up against each other while fully clothed and you both get off on it, that's a form of sex. And it's pretty damn safe, too.
What kind of "big deal" were you wondering about?